Planning wedding first dance lessons up to the big day

How many lessons, how far ahead, what couples bring: how dance teachers can plan first dance coaching backwards from the wedding date and book the series.

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Start from the wedding date and work backwards. Let the couple book a first lesson online, where you hear the song, see how they move and agree on the style; then book the rest of the series yourself, spaced so the last lesson falls a few days before the wedding. Put the song, the date and the dance level in the booking note, and ask the couple to bring the shoes they'll wear on the day. The series then fits their calendar, and nothing is left to the final week.

A first lesson couples can book online

The first lesson is where you find out what the couple wants: a simple, elegant slow dance, a choreographed routine, or a surprise change of song halfway through. Make it a service couples can book on your public page. On Book, each service has a name, a price and an optional description, and each slot belongs to one service with its own start and end.

ServiceExample slotExample priceWho books it
First dance: first lesson60 min€60The couple, online
First dance: lesson60 min€55You, as part of the series
First dance: final rehearsal60 min€55You, a few days before the wedding

Lengths and prices are examples: set your own. The couple is one booking: one person fills in the form and writes the partner's name in the note. Book doesn't take payments, so if you sell a pack of lessons, explain in the first-lesson description how it's paid.

What to ask in the booking note

  • the wedding date;
  • the song, or a shortlist;
  • experience: never danced, a few salsa classes, danced as children;
  • anything to plan around: a long dress, a train, heels, an injury.

Working backwards from the date

Once you know the level and the routine, count how many lessons it takes, then place them backwards from the wedding. A couple with no experience and a choreographed routine needs more time than a couple who want a simple slow dance. Leave space between lessons for practice at home, and keep a margin before the wedding for a final rehearsal.

WhenLesson focus (example)
First lessonSong, style, basic hold and steps
Following weeksBuilding the routine section by section
Two to three weeks beforeFull run-throughs, adjustments for dress and shoes
A few days beforeFinal rehearsal, entrance and exit, calm nerves

At the end of the first lesson, book the whole series with the couple from your calendar. First and last name are required, email and phone optional, and you can add a note to each lesson, such as "lesson 3: turns and dip". If you enter their email, they get a confirmation and a calendar file for each lesson, so the plan is in their diary as well as yours.

Evenings and weekends

Couples who both work can come in the evening or at the weekend, which is also when your group classes run. Decide how many private slots you keep for wedding couples each week, and create them on the weekdays you choose, repeated until an end date. In busy wedding months, open a few extra slots for those weeks only.

Shoes, dress and the venue

Ask the couple to bring the shoes they'll wear on the day from the run-through lessons onwards. A long dress changes turns and dips; if the dress isn't ready, a long skirt helps. If the venue has a small dance floor or a carpet, adjust the routine: ask about it in the first lesson.

When the plan changes

Couples can't move lessons online: they contact you, and you move or cancel from your bookings list. Book doesn't email them about changes, so confirm the new time yourself. Keep the final rehearsal protected: if other lessons move, the last one before the wedding shouldn't. Book costs €5/month, everything included: unlimited services and bookings, no commission, no contract.

How many first dance lessons does a couple need?
It depends on their experience and the routine. Decide after the first lesson and plan the series backwards from the wedding date.
Does each partner need to book?
No. One person books for the couple and writes the partner's name in the note.
Can I book the whole series at once?
Yes. Book each lesson from your calendar after the first one; add the couple's email so they get every confirmation.
Can couples pay for a pack of lessons online?
No. Book doesn't take payments, so explain in the description how a pack is paid.
What should couples bring?
Comfortable clothes at first, then the wedding shoes, and a long skirt if the dress is long, for the run-through lessons.

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